Most parents and coaches in the study admitted to the existence of something referred to as “Optimal Push.” However, the majority agreed that it’s a tricky concept. It only works when done right, and there’s a fine line between optimal pushing by a parent and pressuring/over-pushing.
– 3 Inspiring Questions to Ask Your Athlete This Fall
– Bonus Video Feature: Teach Your Kids What Works in Life
It can be argued that kids need to accept the authority of those in the one-up position in life: parents, teachers, coaches, police officers, etc. I get that. But if all we desire is obedient and dependent kids who don’t exercise any kind of critical thinking, then “Because I said so” works, but only until rebellion kicks in.
– 3 Strategies to Positively Deal with Sibling Rivalry in Sports
– Bonus Video Feature: Fake It Until You Make It
There’s an illusion being promoted in our American sports culture that what kids need to be successful is the best equipment, the best facilities, the best coaches, the best
program, and if possible, the best climate. In addition, kids need victories and the accompanying hardware – medals, ribbons, and trophies. I would like to propose that while all those things are nice to have, they are wants, not needs.
– A Reason to Cheer – by Wendy Bruce Martin
– Video Feature – The Gift of Optimism
– How Do You Talk About Your Child’s Coach?
– Bonus Video Feature: Performance Peaks and Valleys
– Spring Cleaning Tips for Your Young Aspiring Athletes
– Video Feature: The End of Defensive Conversations with Your Athlete
– This Is Going to Hurt A Bit…And It’s Good For You!
– A Resource to Tap – “101 Ways to Be a Terrific Sports Parent” by Joel Fish
– Bonus Video Feature: Not All Praise Is Created Equal
– What Does Your Child Imagine for this Life?
– Bonus Video Feature: To Push or Not to Push